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Red Flag
Detector

Describe their behavior in plain language, or upload a chat screenshot. Our AI gives you a brutally honest red flag score β€” no sugarcoating.

⚑ Live Example β€” See How It Works
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Jake
iMessage
🚩 SAMPLE SCREENSHOT
Tuesday
Hey, still on for Saturday? 😊
10:32 AM Β· Read
6 hours later…
oh hey, something came up. maybe next week?
4:41 PM
🚩 Vague cancellation
Again? That's the 3rd time πŸ˜• Is everything ok?
4:43 PM Β· Read
yeah just really busy lol you know how it is
4:58 PM
🚩 No accountability
No reply for 2 days
lol sorry been crazy. let's just see what happens πŸ™‚
Thu 9:14 AM
🚩 Avoids commitment
Upload any chat screenshot β€” WhatsApp, DM, texts
πŸ€– AI Analysis Result
Analyzing red flags…
Red Flag Score
0
HIGH RISK
Flags Detected
🚩 Repeated cancellations with no explanation
🚩 Deflects accountability with humor
🚩 Avoids committing to plans or relationship
Describe the situation
0 / 1500
Upload a screenshot
OPTIONAL
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Drop a chat screenshot here or click to upload
WhatsApp, DM, Tinder, texts β€” any chat screenshot works. JPG/PNG/WEBP, max 4MB
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Red Flag Score
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Risk Level
Red Flags Detected
Analysis

What Is a Red Flag in a Relationship?

A red flag is a pattern of behavior that signals something unhealthy in a relationship or dating situation. Unlike minor incompatibilities, red flags tend to escalate β€” what starts as occasional avoidance can become full ghosting, and what begins as minor criticism can turn controlling.

Common Red Flags Our AI Detects

Love bombing early on
Hot and cold behavior
Never takes accountability
Gaslighting patterns
Dry texting
Avoids defining the relationship
Dismisses your feelings
Inconsistent communication
Future faking
Goes silent after conflict
Guilt-trips you
Never initiates plans

Red Flags vs Green Flags

Not every concern is a red flag. Our AI distinguishes between serious warning signs, patterns worth watching, and genuinely healthy behaviors β€” so you get an honest picture, not a panicked one.